Life, Relations, Reality, Hope and Love

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everything will be hard or not it depends on how we face and think about it,
you know.. for example we thought that become a mother is hard, keeping us in her stomach for 9 month but I think every mother in the world enjoying the pregnancy things becoz they know that they’re carrying thing which is very special to her.
I saw one of my colleage here, when she was pregnant, she looks very, very happy..
She often opened her cloth, and tickled the stomach so the baby could feel his mother touch.
And when she gave birth to her baby, she had to have an ceasar operation.. must be very hurt, but she seems very happy, becoz she knew after the pain she’ll get something special, her baby
And become a man.. just relax friend.. everybody have their own difficulties and worries.. but as long as you take every burden that you have as something that will make you more mature, stronger, and most of all, make a better you, you’ll enjoy every process in your life.
And you’ll be proud to be a man.
About dissapoiting your gf’s & her family..
Why should they disappoint? As long as you give the best I believe they wont be disappoint.. trust me..

it’s a very nice thing to plan your future like that coz one day you’ll become the head of the family..
But you shouldn’t close your heart to any relationship b’coz of that.
I have a cousin, she get married even when they don’t have saving for the wedding ceremony..
Tapi mereka nikah tu, dengan motivasi yang tulus.. and you know, only after 10 years, with 3 children, they can afford 2 cars and own a house for their own..
Rejeki mah Tuhan yang atur da.. tenang aja… :)