Love and Time

I was asked one time, does love really need time? I mulled over it for sometime, weighing the pros and cons and guess what? I think it does.
I had been in is some relationships where haste indeed made waste. I jumped in impulsively leaving most to fate. My motto used to be that if the hat fits, wear it. Most of the time, love did feel like it fits only to find out later that the compatibility is stemming from the fact that all we had were common interests and that there are no feelings involved. It should have been nice if only we don't find out later that above all, it is the love that fortifies the bond. Needless to say, we part ways for a newfound love or hope that it is.
I don't know but I believe that this happens because not all the desire to be with someone comes from a sentimental point of view instead, some are from attractions of the flesh. In cases like these, the pull may be mutual, acted out and from there, it would be very nice to evolve into something more. Lucky are those who start things with love and stay that way. In case of failed love lives, there is at least the contentment where they can dwell on and not forever wonder what could have been if they did not decide to be together.
So therefore, the drift that I’m trying to get into is, even falling in love entails some thought after all; the brain is put in a way that it is above the heart so that if the heart starts to take chances, the brain is there to rationalize.
Love is great guys especially one that is right in every way possible.

Do You Love Someone this Much?

Do You Love Someone this Much?

Girl: Slow down, I'm scared.
Guy: No, this is fun.
Girl: No it's not. Please it's too scary!
Guy: Then tell me you love me.
Girl: Fine I love you. Slow down!
Guy: Now give me a BIG hug.
Girl : *hugs him*
Guy: Can you take my helmet off and putit onyourself? It's bugging me.
Girl: Alright, now slow down
Guy: I love you babe
Girl: I love you too, please just slow downnow!

Please...(in the paper the next day):
A motorcycle had crashed into a building
because of brake failure.
Two people were on it,but only 1 had survived.
The truth was that halfway down the road, the guy realized that his brakes broke, but hedidn't want tolet the girl know. Instead, he had her say she loved him and felt her hug one last time, thenhe had herwear his helmet so that she would liveeven thoughit meant that he would die.

I'm Back

huhuhuhu udah ampir satu setengah bulan g ga nulis blog, banyak yang udah berubah nie di kehidupan g, tapi yg masih samanya juga bnayak, g masih kerja di GPPJ, masih kost di tempat yang sama, masih suka khawatirin hal yang sama. Di sekitar g uda banyak yang berubah, teman g ada yang nambah nama belakangnya jadi hwang, teman g Lili udah married, Herry yang udah skrispi, Hendra yang nerusin skripsi, Martinus juga uda skripsi, dede g yang udah kuliah (selamat menikmati kehidupan kampus ya, jangan mudah nyerah..jia you)
Liburan panjang kemaren (17-22 Agustus) g balik ke Singkawang, Kalimantan. Singkawang masih panas seperti biasanya, malahan ditambah pake kabut asap segala. Oh ya Btw, now dan ga tau ampe kapan, g sekarang ngga Single lagi, g lagi jalan ama a girl named LXM. Liburan panjag kemaren dia juga ngambil cuti dan balik ke Padang, her hometown. Ntar di blog-blog selanjutnya g mungkin banyak cerita tentang LXM, dia orangnya sangat unik.
Today g mungkin buat rekor setelah hampir 2 bulan ga pernah pulang malam dari kantor, today g pulang malam lagi !!!! hehehehe. di lantai marketing uda ga ada orang nie. Lagian pulang cepet2 juga males, LXM lago dinas luar kota ke Lampung, dia mungkin disana bisa 2 minggu, so lonely without her.
Banyak nie yang mau g benahin di kamar kost g, g pengen beli lemari pakaian, beli meja komputer dll. But sometimes g mikir kalo g ngelengkap-lengkapin kamar kost g emang g bakal lama di sini???? ya ga tau juga sie, kadang g bingung kalo mikirin hal kaya gini, ditambah lagi LXM yang orangnya unik banget hehehehe
G ga bisa kayanya bener2 marah ama dia kalo dia buat mistakes, soalnya g tau sebenernya dia ga mau ngelakuin kesalahan itu, dia terlalu polos banget orangnya.
Contoh kecilnya aja, dia kadang-kadang kalo reply sms, ga pernah nyambung ama sms yang sebelumnya, unik ya, lama-lama juga cape sie ngasih taunya hehehehe
About my job, semuanya berjalan lancar, udah2an g makin menguasai pekerjaan ini dan bisa get what i want in this job. Ada 2 project lagi yang musti diselesaikan ampe akhir tahun ini. Guys, doaian g ya, biar g selalu mampu ngatasin masalah dalam hisup g, paling ngga g bisa menghadapinya dengan kepala tegak
Love you all .............................................