Love and Time

I was asked one time, does love really need time? I mulled over it for sometime, weighing the pros and cons and guess what? I think it does.
I had been in is some relationships where haste indeed made waste. I jumped in impulsively leaving most to fate. My motto used to be that if the hat fits, wear it. Most of the time, love did feel like it fits only to find out later that the compatibility is stemming from the fact that all we had were common interests and that there are no feelings involved. It should have been nice if only we don't find out later that above all, it is the love that fortifies the bond. Needless to say, we part ways for a newfound love or hope that it is.
I don't know but I believe that this happens because not all the desire to be with someone comes from a sentimental point of view instead, some are from attractions of the flesh. In cases like these, the pull may be mutual, acted out and from there, it would be very nice to evolve into something more. Lucky are those who start things with love and stay that way. In case of failed love lives, there is at least the contentment where they can dwell on and not forever wonder what could have been if they did not decide to be together.
So therefore, the drift that I’m trying to get into is, even falling in love entails some thought after all; the brain is put in a way that it is above the heart so that if the heart starts to take chances, the brain is there to rationalize.
Love is great guys especially one that is right in every way possible.