The (not-so-new) break-up

These past few weeks, I met my old friends which most of them know both me and my ex-bf. So over this time, I was frequently asked about my past relationship with him. Why it ended.


My answer is, our relationship just ended. As simple as that.

The concrete reason is we just couldn’t see ourselves to be together again.

We both have made some mistakes. I admitted mine, I took him for granted. He did too (according to me). A relationship where one or both parties feel tortured when they’re together is no longer a healthy relationship. So, we gotta end it, for the sake of both of us.



None of my friend can take this reason. They asked these sort of questions:

- Who cheated?

- Was it economical issue?

- Was it physical issue?

- Was it distance issue?

etc



See, I’ll elaborate here

1. Nobody cheated. I didn’t cheat. He didn’t cheat. If you seen me or him walked with someone else, it means me or him has found a new love. Nothing to do with our past relationship.

2. What economical issue? I believe he earns more than me. And I am not into his wealth anyway. He is not, too. So money is no issue here. It has nothing to do about why it ended.

3. Physical issue? If my dear friends know me well enough, they’d know that I am not into looks. And how long those nice handsome looks will will last anyway.

4. Yes, we were separated by a distance. Maybe it’s the nicest excuse why it ended. I really wanna use it. But no…. it is not.


Why do you guys want me to say something spectacular about my break-up? How do you guys want it? Just like those infotainments on TV? Where those actresses had a divorce because of 3rd person? Or because of some violence? Bla bla bla?


I wouldn’t pick someone, something or anything to be pointed as the culprit of our break up. Cause there’s no culprit anyway.

Can’t you guys just accept the fact that we broke up in peace? No drama. Just a clean break up, simply cause we no longer walk in the same path. The cross-road has ended there, a year ago. That’s it. Nothing more nothing less. Just a point where we both accept that our relationship has come to its last final stop.


Thanks to ML (i copied it from ur blog)